If you’re here, you probably know me as a businesswoman, a mom, a partner, or maybe just someone you stumbled across while scrolling. Either way, welcome to my world, where life can be messy, work is rewarding, and the coffee is always brewing because, honestly, it needs to be.
I run an insurance agency, but that’s just one chapter in the story. I’m also a proud mom to two amazing girls, part of a beautifully chaotic blended family, and a business owner who works hard to integrate the personal and professional into something cohesive and meaningful. My life isn’t perfectly curated, and that’s just how I like it.
Blending Family and Business
Let’s talk about the juggle. Being a single mom turned partner in a blended family is an adventure. Some days, it feels like I’m running a marathon with no finish line, trying to make sure everyone gets where they need to be, physically and emotionally. Other days, it’s like sitting on the couch with my daughters, eating popcorn, and realizing, “Hey, we’re doing okay.”
That’s the thing about blending lives, it’s not about perfection. It’s about showing up. Whether it’s cheering at baseball games, negotiating bedtime with a strong-willed daughter, or hashing out business deals, it’s all part of the bigger picture.
I don’t separate my professional life from my personal one because they’re interconnected. My girls have seen me on conference calls, and they’ve heard me talk through business challenges at the dinner table. I hope that’s teaching them resilience and ambition, even when life throws curve balls.
The Vulnerability of "Real"
Here’s a confession, I don’t always know what I’m doing. And that’s okay. Social media often shows us a highlight reel of people “crushing it” in life and business. But let me be the first to tell you, I’ve stumbled.
I’ve sent the wrong email, missed deadlines, forgotten to sign permission slips, and questioned myself more times than I can count. But I’ve also learned that vulnerability isn’t a weakness, it’s a strength. People connect with honesty. They don’t need to see perfection, they need to see real.
When I talk about my work or my family, I want you to know it’s coming from a place of truth. I’m not here to present a glossy version of my life. I’m here to show the late nights, the messy rooms, the brainstorming sessions in sweatpants, and the small wins that make it all worth it.
What I’ve Learned Along the Way
You Can’t Do It All Alone: Whether it’s family, friends, or business collaborators, building a community around you is essential. I’ve found partners in life and work who help keep me grounded and moving forward.
Prioritize What Matters: It’s easy to get caught up in the hustle. But at the end of the day, if I’m not creating something meaningful, whether that’s a stronger connection with my daughters or a more personal touch for my clients, then what’s the point?
Embrace Imperfection: Perfection is overrated. Some of the best moments in life and business come from figuring things out as you go.
Celebrate Small Wins: A family dinner without interruptions or a work project that resonates with a client, those are the victories that keep me going.
Why I Share
I share my story because I want people to see what’s possible when you keep it real. It’s not about having all the answers or being in control 100% of the time. It’s about showing up, doing the work, and letting the “real” you shine through.
My insurance agency is more than just a business, it’s an extension of who I am. I want my clients and referral partners to feel like they know me, trust me, and can rely on me, not just because I offer great policies but because I’m a person who cares.
The same goes for my personal life. My girls know that I’ll always be there for them, even when I’m juggling a million things. My partner knows that, despite the chaos, we’re building something beautiful together.
In the End…
Life isn’t about being perfect, it’s about being present. Whether I’m navigating a big business deal or helping my daughters with homework, I’m learning to embrace the messy, uncertain, and sometimes overwhelming moments.
So, if you’re stumbling through life trying to make it all work, you’re not alone. And if you’re one of those rare people who has it all figured out, please teach me your ways!
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